One Meditation goes a long way.

Part of growing up is realizing that not everyone is going to be your friend, not everyone will like you, and the desire to be liked by everyone is just foolish. I remember when I first began college I would go out all the time with the hopes of meeting the coolest and funnest people. I would seek these people and these relationships myself.

Realizing this, I go about my day focusing on what I need to do. Then, at the end of the day, I feel accomplished for what I did that day, instead of disappointed that I didn't meet anyone new. 

 Seeking these relationships myself is battling the natural flow of energy. During my last few semesters of college I realized this and began reminding myself everyday that my energy will naturally attract more friends. My life became so much more calm after this. I used to drink so I became more social...an underlying factor for why most people drink. I wanted to become more social to meet more people... See the pattern? 

Once I realized that me trying to make friends was counterproductive, I let my energy lead. It's crazy how it worked, people began to approach me and were curious about who I am. These are the friends that I should know.

 The same concept applies to LOVE. I have seen many peoples facebook statuses saying that they are going to find love this year.... that is not logical. Your energy will attract the person whom also seeks to be loved and find love, but you, yourself, will not 'find' love. If you find a boyfriend or girlfriend because that is what you sought out to do then the relationship will not be it's best. This goes into a whole other topic... for new, I focus on friends.

Here is an awesome meditation from The Science of Mind:

My Vibration Attracts Friends to Me

        I am never alone, never lonely, for I have as companions and friends those people who are drawn to me by the ever-active and immutable Law of Attraction. I desire to be loved, therefore, I allow myself to love greatly, to feel warmly inclined toward people; to be interested in them and helpful on their behalf. I give as I wish to receive. It is not enough that I profess  to love people. I must really love people, more dearly than I have ever loved before, because all men are my brothers. 

      I do not outline who shall be my friends and companions, for there is no desire to coerce, compel or suggest to anyone. The Law of Attraction brings into contact and relationship with me all those people in whose company I find the greatest profit and enjoyment and to whom I may give the most. 

      I am happy and radiant, for I enjoy at all times perfect companionship. I trust implicitly the Law of Attraction to bring into my environment and atmosphere friends and loved ones, and establish for me a community of interest and helpfulness. As I love and co-operate with my fellowman, so does he love me and give his co-operation to me. I am happy in all of my companionships and relationships, because they are worked out perfectly by the Law, and the Law is motivated to work for me BY MY LOVE FOR PEOPLE.

My Loving Thought of Others Attracts Friends to Me

Please let me know what you think about this, or if you have any advice for me!